Revenge Bedtime Procrastination: What It Is and How to Stop

The short version: Revenge bedtime procrastination is staying up later than you intended, with nothing forcing you to, because the late evening is the only time in the day that feels like your own. Researchers call the wider habit bedtime procrastination and link it to shorter sleep, poorer sleep and more tiredness the next day. To stop it, keep the time alone and move it: claim a protected hour earlier in the evening, decide a lights-out time and a "last app" time, keep the phone out of reach of the bed, and let a schedule close the apps that keep you up so the decision is already made when you are tired.

It is 12:50am. You meant to be asleep by 11. The house is quiet, the phone is warm in your hand, and you are three videos into a stranger's kitchen renovation that you will not remember tomorrow. You know the alarm goes off at 6:30. You keep going anyway, because this is the first hour all day that nobody has needed anything from you.

We do this too. Some of us at Unglue have a bedtime rule we have kept for about four nights in a row, total. So this is written by people who know exactly how good that quiet hour feels, and how bad the morning after does.

What is revenge bedtime procrastination?

Revenge bedtime procrastination is the habit of putting off sleep to get some free time back after a day that left you none. You know you will be tired. You stay up anyway, often on your phone.

The plain version, bedtime procrastination, was named by researchers at Utrecht University in 2014. Floor Kroese and colleagues defined it as "failing to go to bed at the intended time, while no external circumstances prevent a person from doing so". The important part is the gap: you wanted to be in bed, and nothing stopped you, but you were not in bed.

The "revenge" part came later. It is a translation of a Chinese phrase, 报复性熬夜 (bàofùxìng áoyè, roughly "retaliatory staying up late"), used by people working very long hours who stayed up to take back some time for themselves. It spread on English-language social media around 2020, when a lot of us suddenly had no edges left in the day.

The Sleep Foundation describes three things that are all present:

  1. A delay in going to sleep that cuts your total sleep time.
  2. No real reason for staying up, such as a sick child or a deadline.
  3. Knowing at the time that the delay will cost you.

If that sounds like a description of your Tuesday, you are in good company.

Why it happens

It is tempting to call this a willpower problem. The research suggests something more interesting.

The day leaves no time that is yours. The "revenge" is against a schedule. If work, commuting, childcare and chores fill every waking hour, the only unclaimed time is the time you were supposed to sleep. People reach for it because it is the only time on offer.

Your body clock may be running late. In a daily diary study of 108 employees, Jana Kühnel and colleagues found that people with a late chronotype (night owls) procrastinated about bedtime more early in the work week, especially on Mondays and Tuesdays. They argued that a lot of bedtime procrastination comes from a mismatch between a person's body clock and their work schedule. You are asking a night owl to go to sleep at a morning person's time.

Self-control is lower at night. Kroese's original study of 177 adults found that people who scored lower on self-control measures reported more bedtime procrastination. A 2022 review of 43 studies by Vanessa Hill and colleagues at CQUniversity found the same link, along with a link to being an evening type.

The phone is designed to have no last page. A book has chapters. A show has an end credit. A feed refills forever, and the next video starts before you decide anything. In a 2023 survey of Spanish adults, problematic smartphone use went together with more bedtime procrastination and worse sleep. Our guide on how to reduce screen time as an adult covers the wider plan for the daytime too.

Put those together and the late night starts to look predictable. A tired brain meets a feed with no bottom, at the only free hour of the day, in someone whose body clock thinks it is still early.

What it does to your sleep

Adults aged 18 to 60 need at least 7 hours of sleep a night, according to the American Academy of Sleep Medicine and the Sleep Research Society, as summarised by the CDC. Bedtime procrastination eats straight into that, because most of us cannot push the alarm later to match.

  • In Kroese's 2014 study, bedtime procrastination was linked to fewer hours of sleep, more daytime tiredness and feeling short of sleep, even after taking self-control and demographics into account. Nearly 30% of participants said they slept 6 hours or less on weeknights.
  • Hill's 2022 review found moderate links between bedtime procrastination and shorter sleep, poorer sleep quality and more daytime fatigue.

Both come with a caveat worth knowing. These are mostly surveys taken at one point in time, and the review rated the overall evidence as low certainty. They show that bedtime procrastination and poor sleep go together. They cannot prove which causes which. People who already sleep badly may also find it harder to go to bed. Either way, the late nights and the tired mornings tend to feed each other.

How to stop revenge bedtime procrastination

If you want to know how to get rid of revenge bedtime procrastination, start by accepting that the need behind it is real. Plans that just take the time away tend to fail by Thursday. The ones below keep the time alone and change where it sits and how it ends.

1. Move the time alone, then protect it

The strongest fix is also the hardest: find the free hour earlier. That might mean 8:30 to 9:30 instead of 11:30 to 12:30, a lunch break you actually take, or one evening a week that belongs to you. If you share a home, this usually needs a conversation (see below).

Then use that hour for something that feels like yours. A feed can fill the time without making it feel like it happened. Reading, a bath, a hobby, a call with a friend, or a show you chose on purpose all tend to leave you feeling you had the evening.

2. Pick two times: last app and lights out

Most people only have a vague bedtime. Give yourself two:

  • Last app time, for example 10:15. After this, no feeds, no shopping, no news.
  • Lights out, for example 10:45. Count back 7 to 8 hours from your alarm.

The gap between them is your wind-down. It is still time alone. It is just time that does not refill itself.

3. Plan for the moment you will want to keep going

Researchers at NYU and the University of Hamburg tested a planning exercise called mental contrasting with implementation intentions in two randomised trials with students, published in Psychology & Health in 2020. You picture the good outcome (waking up rested), then the obstacle that usually gets in the way (one more video), then write an if-then plan for it. Compared with a positive-thinking exercise, it reduced how late people went to bed.

Yours might be: "If I catch myself opening a new video after 10:15, then I plug the phone in in the kitchen and pick up my book."

4. Put distance between you and the phone

The phone that sleeps in the kitchen cannot start a 45-minute scroll in bed. A cheap alarm clock takes away the main excuse for keeping it by the pillow. If the kitchen feels too far, the other side of the bedroom works better than the nightstand.

5. Let a schedule decide at 10pm, so you do not have to

At 11pm you are the worst possible person to judge whether one more video is a good idea. Decide at noon instead, and let the phone carry it out.

  • iPhone on iOS 27: go to Settings > Screen Time > Screen Time Schedule, turn on Schedule and add an evening window that allows only calls and messages. Apple explains this in its schedules and limits guide.
  • iPhone on iOS 26 and earlier: use Settings > Screen Time > Downtime and set it to a schedule. Apple's iOS 26 guide explains that turning on Block at Downtime with a Screen Time passcode makes the apps actually close.
  • Android: Settings > Digital Wellbeing > Focus mode lets you pause chosen apps on a schedule, and Bedtime mode in the same menu can turn the screen grayscale at night.

Our guide to blocking apps for certain hours has the full steps.

The weak spot of built-in limits is that the person who set them can switch them off with a tap. That is why we built Unglue the way we did. It blocks the apps you choose, on a schedule if you like, and they open again when you earn minutes with something in real life, like reading a few pages or stretching. On iPhone it uses Apple's Screen Time framework. If you want a limit that holds when you are tired, Buddy Code lets someone you trust hold the key to removing apps from the block list. Yes, it is an app to help you use your phone less. We are aware.

6. Keep the morning steady

Getting up at roughly the same time every day, including weekends, is one of the most common pieces of sleep advice, and the Sleep Foundation lists it first. It also helps the next night: if you wake at the same time, you are more likely to feel sleepy at a reasonable hour.

7. Talk to the people you live with

If the day has no free time because the work at home is not shared evenly, no bedtime trick will fix that for long. A calm talk about who does bedtime, dishes and lunches can free an earlier hour. If you are a parent, our piece on revenge bedtime procrastination for moms and dads is about exactly this.

When to talk to a doctor

Bedtime procrastination is a habit, and most people can shift it with the steps above. It is worth talking to a doctor if:

  • You go to bed on time and still cannot fall asleep or stay asleep most nights.
  • You feel very sleepy during the day even after a full night in bed.
  • You are staying up because lying in the dark brings worry or low mood that you would rather avoid.

Those can be signs of a sleep problem such as insomnia, or of stress and low mood that deserve proper support.

Common questions

What is the definition of revenge bedtime procrastination?

It means delaying sleep to get free time back after a day that left you none, while knowing you will be tired. Researchers call the general behaviour bedtime procrastination: "failing to go to bed at the intended time, while no external circumstances prevent a person from doing so."

Why is it called "revenge" bedtime procrastination?

The phrase comes from a Chinese expression for staying up late in retaliation for long working days. The "revenge" is against a schedule that took the whole day. Staying up is a way of taking a little of it back.

How do I get rid of revenge bedtime procrastination?

Find your time alone earlier in the evening, set a "last app" time and a lights-out time, charge the phone outside the bedroom, and schedule the apps that keep you up to close in the evening. An if-then plan for the moment you want to keep scrolling also helps.

Is revenge bedtime procrastination bad for you?

Studies link bedtime procrastination with shorter sleep, poorer sleep quality and more daytime tiredness. Adults need at least 7 hours a night, and late nights tend to cut into that. The research cannot yet show that one causes the other, but the link is consistent.

Who does revenge bedtime procrastination affect most?

Anyone with little control over their day can be affected. Research points to night owls and to people who score lower on self-control measures. Parents of young children come up often too, which we cover in our guide for moms and dads.

Is bedtime procrastination a sign of ADHD?

Not on its own. Lots of people without ADHD do it. If you also struggle with focus, starting tasks and time in many parts of life, it may be worth talking to a doctor or psychologist about an assessment.

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